does Bob take pictures of me like this? I look like Howard Stern and Kenny G's love child. Which maybe is usually how I look, but shouldn't my significant other go out of his way to spare me from knowing this? Last year's shore pictures are much worse. There is film where he is inches away from my face, out in direct sunlight. On the audio you can hear me complaining to him, "stand back". He knows I am sensitvie about my lack of looks, or rather lack of pretty ones, so why doesn't he go out of his way to make me look better, soft lighting, good angles, rather than persist in showing me just as I am?